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Met on a dating site, we talked in depth for a month every day online before meeting. I like the fact that his a great when he is with you but imagine him doing this for a long time!! Not committing and hes probably seeing other people too.I see him 1-2 times a week, he lives 20 minutes away. We are not yet exclusive(it hasn't come up--I'm reluctant to bring it up). Surprises me with my favorite things, takes me out, pays for things, opens car doors, cooks me dinner and brings wine, gets me little gifts, is completely affectionate and interested--holds my hand at the movie theater, all cuddled up with me on the sofa during movies or when we sleep, kisses me goodbye if he leaves my house for work after sleeping over and I'm still in bed. But then oftentimes he'll sort of disappear or back off for several days at a time. I think you can keep seeing him but the game gets old fast. I think that each relationship is unique and there is no right answer.Would a girl purposely not contact you to see if youll contact her?
He always laughs when he says it, but I find it very odd and I always brush it off or dismiss it. If you want more from him - and it sounds like you do - you could just sit his butt down and ask what's up. I think he's happy with the way things are, which does not involve committing to you or being exclusive. Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice.
I know for a fact that when people first get into a relationship they fear communicating what is really bug'n them and that will start to manifest itself in other ways. But what it boils down to is if you have the patience to see where it can go. We are not yet exclusive(it hasn't come up--I'm reluctant to bring it up). But then oftentimes he'll sort of disappear or back off for several days at a time.
I won't hear from him, he won't log on, he doesn't text/respond to texts..I start wondering what's up.
I really don't see them as excuses, I did at first.
Which is why I'm saying to Jen83 that it can either be a game he's playing or just something else, something deeper.